Hey Piff, thank you for being kind. I have gotten away from him. We are now legally separated. As I was going through the process of preparing for the separation hearing, people started coming forward to tell me things. I spoke to one lady who told me that Roy told her that I was dead. He introduced her to his twin sons. He would drive to her house on the days that I worked 12 hours and spend the day. She said he was always at her house. He was living in my house, robbing me blind and going to see another woman in the truck I traded my Lexus SUV in for. She said she quit seeing him because he had too many secrets. He was always saying that he had to go back to the reservation. He refused to show her where he lived. That is because it was my house that I have lived in for 15 years. I lost my house to foreclosure because if his lies. I spoke to another woman who was with him for 4 years. He starved her, took her money, and beat her. When she left he stalked and threatened her. She and her child left him on December 13. That's the day that he picked for the death of the child that was supposedly relative that died on the trail of tears. He told me that our neighbor was on the sexual offender's registry, so I would not go talk to the neighbors. I learned that there is no 3rd degree black belt, no schooling for electrical work or auto mechanics, no Native American heritage, and no mustang that he caught in the wild and raised. He has a history of trying to get with younger women and ending up with their mothers. He is a sick, twisted individual. I have seen messages between him and many females. One he gave the advise to dress as to appear to be a very young girl to be sexually appealing to her husband. There were so many things that I did not understand, that hurt, but at the same time he would tell me every day how much I meant to him and how much he loved me. Unless I asked him the wrong question. Then there was a big explosion and craziness. Sometimes he would hold a gun to his head, sometimes he would leave. Over time that behavior teaches you to keep your mouth shut. Finally I saw where he scanned a friends tribal card into his computer and put his own name in. It only been in the last few months that I started seeing the truth. I see now that I was wrong to defend him. I did what I thought was right. Turns out I was very very wrong. There are other things too, that I have learned that are far worse than what is mentioned here. It is an ugly situation, but yet he continues to lie. He lied on his affidavit to court. He lies to his lawyer, and I am sure there are women right now that he is lying to in order to get money. For those of you who feel the need to judge me for standing with a man that I loved and that I thought loved me, I hope you never are in my shoes. He's good at what he does and he is smart. He's been doing this all his life. I believe he learned that and worse from his Mother.
