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Offline sam

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Re: Pablo Russell
« Reply #60 on: February 19, 2009, 09:25:06 pm »
thanx for all the information

Offline AnnOminous

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Re: Pablo Russell
« Reply #61 on: February 19, 2009, 10:25:42 pm »
I hope it helps someone Sam.

I came across some youtubes of Pablo from last fall in I believe Czech Republic.  This one made me feel sad and embarrassed for him.  All that's missing is some buckskin.  Oh, and maybe a headdress.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1MOwbz11zD8

After he sings he typically for some unknown reason co-opts the Lakota words Mitakuye Oyasin.  Except when Pablo says it, it comes out more as My Tacky Ass.

Here's a couple more vids:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TDCtXVl7hpk
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=51ItKyPcVIg&feature=related

Good  grief.   ::)

Offline ska

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Re: Pablo Russell
« Reply #62 on: February 20, 2009, 02:42:31 am »
Dear Ann,

Thank you for posting these hilarious videos.

Why do humans insist on failing to use our hearts to guide our over-puffed heads?  This man only reflects the silliness of the people who want to believe that "they can get so much for so little" (as my husband likes to say).  His audience has convinced themselves that, by spending a little money and renting a large gym/auditorium, they can beckon a real-live-Indian-medicine-man to bless their wrong-headedness and their empty ego-filled fantasies of attaining spiritual ascension without having to do what all the rest of us mere mortals must do - suffer, learn, be compassionate, humble ourselves, reflect, laugh, live, cry, humble ourselves again, and repeat. 

It appears Mr. Russell cannot speak any Indian language. Notice that he does not sing any words, just vocables. Not only that, but the songs he is singing are NOT blackfoot songs at all and any exploiter could learn the tunes off of a tape.    I have limited experience, given that I am not Native to Turtle Island, but I've never seen a hand drum played like that - he seems to be quite a novice.  I don't know any Indian guys who would be willing to play in public when they are obviously not very experienced or accomplished.  Mind you, this guy is clearly not performing in Indian communities.

But more importantly, can anyone tell me - what is the sound of one buffalo crapping?

best, ska

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Re: Pablo Russell
« Reply #63 on: February 20, 2009, 12:09:23 pm »
I have heard a number of people express "concerns" about Mr. Russell from friends up at Browning, but no one seems to know what to do about him, And to be honest many people seem to feel that he has been "led a stray by the people in Europe”  and they seem to be most concerned that he is going to harm himself and what people outside think of them as a community.

My of my “pet peeves” is that all these people seem to feel the need to say “all my relations” in Lakota.  It is on so many web pages adn I have even heard non-Lakota Indian people use it. I have had a number of people, especially in Europe, try to talk “Indian” to me, which translates into they try to speak Lakota.  I have to tell them that I am sorry but I don't understand what they are saying and that we are not all Lakota, despite what the movies say.

I watched this u-tube thing, but since I have disabled speakers at the moment I can not hear his song,  so I wondered  how you can tell that it is obviously not Blackfeet?  I would really love to know what he is saying.

Please don’t misunderstand, I’m not supporting him in any way, but as to the way he is singing – I grew up in Montana, and over the years we have been invited to many, many Blackfeet ceremonies and I have seen many elders sing this way, especially on the Blood reserve. It is different in some of the communities, and with different families, but around Star Village, Heart Butte, etc they almost never use prayer songs with any words. 

Anyway, but that is off subject, sorry.  I am just curious. and there are no excuses for his misuse and abuse of his ceremonies.  It is never, never ok to do this just for show or for money. NEVER!  Ask any spiritual elder and they will tell you that.



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Re: Pablo Russell
« Reply #64 on: February 20, 2009, 03:40:36 pm »
I watched the video last night and he was singing the vocable push up of a Lakota Sundance song - this song does have words however he was only singing the vocables

Offline ska

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« Reply #65 on: February 20, 2009, 04:58:08 pm »
Good morning kosowith,

In my reply to AnnOminous, I mentioned that Mr. Russell was not singing a Blackfoot song.  I didn't want to say what culture the song is from, as it is not my place.  As Cetan has revealed, the song is actually Lakota, and Mr. Russell is only singing vocables.  I said he was definitely not singing a Blackfoot song because I recognized the tune to be a Lakota song, but didn't have the right to reveal this, as Cetan does.

I used the term "Blackfoot" because someone mentioned he's from the Canada side, I think.  On the US-side of the fake border, the people call themselves "Blackfeet" - in Canada there is a Blackfoot confederacy of nations who collectively refer to themselves as the "Blackfoot Confederacy".  I believe there are six Nations in this alliance and one also calls themselves Blackfoot.

Given that the Lakota ways have been popularized and adopted by members of other nations all over this continent, it is not surprising that many people grow up with these tunes.  Some day, the people will acknowledge how much the Lakota people have given to the world. The exploitation of these songs by various people who have recorded them for profit (like Harold and Alva Thompson) has meant that many of these songs are available to non-Indians and non-Lakotas. 

You can always tell the people who do not learn Lakota cultural ways from Lakota people themselves in Lakota communities.  Exploiters will learn the songs off of a tape, but they won't know the words or how to sing them, nor will they know how to interpret the words.  They will sing the vocables (the "heya heys") but they won't know the words to the song. 

I hear many people throw around the term "traditional" but I don't really know what that means to them.  To me a "traditional" person knows their culture, speaks their language and reflects their cultural way of being in the way that they live their daily life.  Today, it seems that those with Western education are being taken more seriously.  The ones who really are traditionals are often ignored, silenced, and ridiculed, because they lack education, financial security, and ties to White privilege and Christian privilege.  Even on the rez, traditionals are often excluded from ceremonies being conducted by those who bring non-Natives onto the rez for ceremony because they don't want these traditionals to reveal the fraud going on.  And of course the ones who go off the rez do their crap away from the eyes and ears of traditional people.

Today, there are so many all over this continent who are claiming to do Lakota ceremonies, yet they do not speak the language.  Think of all the Sun Dances going on all over - what songs are they singing?  What language are they singing in?  For example, I have spoken before about a fake Sun Dance ceremony going on in the Comox Valley, in the territories of the Cowichan Nation.  They sing everything there - Robbie Robertson songs, the Cherokee morning song popularized by Rita Coolidge's singing group, and a host of Lakota songs learned off tapes (they all share tapes with each other and beseech each other to practice).  They have no Lakota singers there, the leader is not Lakota and it is doubtful that he is even Indian.

Up here in Salish territories, there's always people coming to town who claim to be "yuwipi" men, but they don't have a clue what they are doing, nor do they seem to understand what they are tapping in to.  Once, a Cree fellow up here told my husband that yuwipi was a Cree ceremony, so my husband asked him "Is that so?  Could you please tell me what "yuwipi" means in Cree?"  Most of the "yuwipi" ceremonies that are done up here seem to be connected to Native American Church, and many of the "road men" also claim to be so-called "yuwipi men".  It is very painful for my husband to see this going on.  He'll be invited to a ceremony once, but never again, once people find out he knows his ways.  And that is what always happens: those who know and won't sell ceremony or tolerate the New Age crap, will be excluded off of the reservation (and even on the reservation, by those who sell ceremony to non-Natives).

My husband (who is Lakota) has shared four simple rules with us Non-Natives to help us come to Lakota spiritual songs in a respectful way.  He says that if we can't answer "yes" to all of these four questions, we should not sing the songs:

1) Do you know the words that you are singing?
2) Do you know what these words mean?
3) Do you know who made the song you are singing?
4) Do you have permission to sing this song?

That's the way he has been taught by his Elders and he wants to share this with us.  He also wants me to share that a common man must never let his voice be recorded, nor should he have pictures taken of him in ceremony.



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Re: Pablo Russell
« Reply #66 on: February 20, 2009, 06:28:35 pm »
I would like to add one thing to Ska's wonderful post. I was told, and feel I can share this because it was said publicly after I was told it privately, by the grandson and singer for a well respected Lakota leader who passed on a while ago is that each Sundance song has a time when it is to be sung. There are a lot of new songs and they are good but there are the original songs and each one must be sung at a particular time in the ceremony.  My understanding is the same is true for other ceremonial songs, they each have a special purpose, you dont just sing a song because you know and like it. You need to know the reason and purpose for it.

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« Reply #67 on: February 20, 2009, 09:16:11 pm »
Thank you, Cetan, for providing further words of caution for those of us who are not Lakota and/or do not speak the language or understand the ways.  You have given us another reason to make sure that only those who know the ways, and speak the language, should be conducting ceremony.  This will require us to reel in our egos and accept that we have a lot to learn. 

I know many Lakota people who would never dare to try to conduct a ceremony, even though they have always spoken their language and lived their way of life.  They have so much respect for these sacred ways. I know Lakotas in their 50s and 60s who are the humblest, most helpful and kind people you can imagine.  They live to support and uplift their people, yet they would not dance in the ceremony because they say "they are not worthy".  You'll find them supporting ceremony with their blood, sweat and tears, not by putting on a big performance, donning a few ill-gotten feathers, shaking a rattle, or adding a few Lakota words to the end of their sentences.  I've seen them working in the dark hours of night, when no one is watching, hauling water, gathering wood, butchering the buffalo, doing whatever it takes.  These good souls are not seeking recognition or material gain, it is a certain spiritual wealth which they are seeking that can not be measured in dollars and cents, and can never be bought or sold. 

Many full-bloods on my husband's rez have had so much taken away from them, yet they could easily give everything they have, even their own lives, so that their people may live.  We may never hear their names, because they do not brag or boast.  They know that there are people who are chosen to do this kind of work, and they are the ones who the people come to trust and turn to. They are keenly aware of the exploitation of their ways, so they are very careful about what they reveal.  They're used to exploiters coming to the rez and trying to get information out of them.  They have learned the hard way that if they share a few words, or give the Lakota name for a medicine, these non-Natives will most likely go back off the rez and use whatever little they have learned to play themselves up like they really know a lot.

My husband asks me to share that, sadly, there are some Lakotas and other Indians who are also falling into these bad ways, maybe out of desperation or temptation, because they have been put through so much suffering.  They may have been adopted away from their families, or grew up off the reservation where they have had no access to the knowledge and wisdom of their grandfathers and grandmothers because of what we Settlers have done.  Maybe they don't realize that the Lakota way of life is still alive and strong, and practiced throughout Lakota territories.  If they don't know this, maybe they think they have to re-invent the ways, and make a performance.  Perhaps Mr. Russell may have one or more of these issues.  But the truth is, there are still common men and women who are carrying ceremonies in a humble way, and not trying to change the old teachings.

best, ska
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Re: Pablo Russell
« Reply #68 on: February 20, 2009, 11:06:31 pm »
Dear Ska,

Thanks for the message/reply.  I do apologize if my question offended you. That was not my intent and I certainly did not mean to.

I was asking "how" because, as I said I do not have sound on my computer and was just wondering how you could tell.  As to Blackfeet/Blackfoot I was following a former post.  Being from the area and having worked in Browning, Babb, Star Village, East Glacier I do know the difference.  I guess if I were to be more accurate I would say Pikuni as that is what it says in the tribal offices and is what Chairman Old Person said we should be using.  

I also do not know what "traditional" means to anyone else, especially in this day and age. Other than it gives people in our meetings something to point fingers about. It seems to come up in every tribal meeting, usually in a way that is meant to put someone else down.  I consider myself traditional in that I can still speak my first language, more or less, although I admit I am really losing a lot of it, and I still participate in ceremonies. Although these days it seems that most of them are held because of funerals. But tradition can get really complicated, or I suppose I should say for me it gets complicated.  I don’t want to put my experience or words into anyone else’s experience.  When I went to school you were not allowed to speak anything but English, ever!  When my kids went to school they weren’t either and were laughed at for "talking funny" and so refused to speak anything but English and although I am very sorry now, I didn't try to push them into it.  So I am one of those very, very guilty people that put another nail in my language's coffin.  My kids may understand a little bit, but do not (won’t) speak it and that is my fault. I admit it. That is also why I do volunteer work in the language program when I am home, unfortunately, when I am home it is usually in the summer, so other than the culture camp there isn't much opportunity, and like I said, I find that I can not remember many, many terms and often find my self translating from English.  So I absolutely can not point at others that do not speak their language.  As my auntie is fond of pointing out, “When you start pointing at someone else you had better remember that three of your fingers are pointing back at you.”  And she also says that if you are not part of the solution you are part of the problem.

I also know that it is one thing for me to talk about tradition and how I feel that a person can not be really traditional without the language. But that is easy for me to say, I know my language and I am not a kid today, facing what kids today face. In most ways their lives are much more difficult than mine was at their ages. Saying that they must be fluent to be considered traditional or to participate in some ceremonies leaves them in a very difficult position. I hope that things are not as bad where you are, I would like to think that some body has it all figured out, but around here it is a big problem. I have worked for over 25 years in various Indian Education programs, both on and off reservation, primary level through university level, and from my work I have found that very few young people here speak their traditional languages fluently any more. (I personally don’t consider being able to count to ten and know your colors as speaking a language.) According to a study I just read last week that was funded by the Oklahoma American Indian languages revitalization project, in 1900 there were 47 different American Indian languages (more if you count dialects) spoken in Oklahoma. Fourteen of those have gone extinct in just the past twenty five years. As of 2006 10 of the remaining had less than 10 speakers, (8 had less than 5) and all of those speaker were very elderly.  Of the 252,000 American Indian people who lived in Oklahoma according to the  2006 census, 21,238 people said they spoke their traditional languages.  Of  these 19,000 were either Cherokee, Choctaw or Creek. (The Cherokee have an absolutely fantastic program and that is at part of the reason they list over 9,000 speakers - so I guess they should be my role model, but they also have the money to spend to do it up right)  The other 20 tribes make up the other 2,235 speakers. the problem here is that the vast majority of these were also over 55 years old.. According to various language studies these numbers are not at all unusual.  Darrell Kipp (Director of the Pikuni Institute) told us a few years ago at a meeting at the Nizipuhwahsin Pikuni emersion School, that language specialists say that by 2005 there will only be 12 American Indian languages spoken in the entire United States.  I think Canada is doing better, but I am not sure.

Don't get me wrong, I do think there is a chance to turn this around.  But it is not easy and many, many parents just don't have the energy or something to pursue it.  Often they are too busy just trying to survive.  In 2001 there was a wonderful language program at the Loneman School taught by Leonard Little Finger, but it closed after 3 years due to lack of enrolment. It was just too hard for parents to get their kids there before school and home after if they stayed for extra curricular programs. He is trying very hard to start a new emersion school, but funds are so limited, it is not easy for him. Last summer I was asked to assist at a culture camp at Rocky Boys for 50 kids between the ages of 9 and 14.  Not only were all their expenses paid, but there were going to be elders present every day, there were daily language classes planned, traditional games, crafts and skills,etc. and the kids would get a per dium and school credits for attending. The camp ended up being cancelled as there was only one child who signed up and she was the daughter of one of the camp counsellors. So like I said, it is not easy and I do not know what struggles they are facing at home so I can't judge.

The question of making CDs of ceremonial songs is another problem that is difficult to resolve. I know one of the principals I worked with said that they had used tapes and CDs made by various singers in the classes so that the kids can at least hear traditional songs. For many it was the only time they heard them. At home they listened to MTV or rap CDS. Due to distances and funding it is often impossible for singers to travel the to schools to sing and many of the kids are being raised by grandparents who can’t take the kids elsewhere to participate.  

These questions of what to do are debated everyday in the schools where I have worked. At the 2007 National Indian Education conference these difficult questions were brought up time and time again, with teachers saying that they felt that there were damned if they try to do anything “cultural” and damned if they don’t, and in the end the kids are the ones who lose.  So to end this long ramble.  I certainly don’t have an answer I just know how hard most of the people I know or work with are trying and how complicated these issues are.  I guess what we need is what the Pikuni call áisokináá (a healing). 





 

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Re: Pablo Russell
« Reply #69 on: February 21, 2009, 12:28:29 am »
Dear Kosowith,

Please do not think you have offended me in any way.  In fact, it is I who should ask your forgiveness.  I am not a Native of this continent, only another Settler with an opinion which is shaped by having the great privilege of being around some Traditional Lakota people who are willing to share some of their precious knowledge and wisdom with me so that I may better understand what is happening to the Lakota people, and try to use the privilege I have been given in a good way. 

I am humbled by your words and ask forgiveness if I have sounded judgmental in what I shared.  I have great respect for your efforts and the knowledge you clearly reflect.  It is so easy for Settlers to say this and that, but what do we really know?  I know nothing compared to what you have learned and are applying in your daily walk.

It's hard for the children when, even on the rez, Christians, New Agers, the media and the Sobriety movement are dominant voices that indoctrinate them into the belief that Indian ways have no relevance in the present age, or even they make is seem as though Indian ways will hold them back unless they are mixed with white, judgmental ways. 

I did not say that people who do not speak the language should not attend ceremony, I said that they should not LEAD or CONDUCT ceremonies.  Indeed, as my husband and others have told me, the best way to come back to language and culture is through the ceremonial ways.  I would like to share words from my husband, and I realize I've made many long posts today and may be scolded by the moderators.  But here are his words:

“We have to help native kids appreciate and respect their cultures because they face mental, spiritual, and ideological genocide every day.  The children need to know that there is still a nation that is still together, that people still practice their way of life and die for it, too.  We recognize that the kids in urban centers don’t feel a link because many were taken from the reservation and adopted into white families . . . today they are imposing a way of life on our children that was never meant for them . . .  despite the myth of the vanishing Indian, there are many Indians who do know their roots, and many Indian ways are not lost. . . they tried to commit spiritual genocide on us, but when that didn’t work, they turned to mental, physical, sexual abuse . . . but this abuse of our people has also had the effect of deteriorating the thoughts, feelings, and emotions of the dominant race.  We just want foreigners to understand that we are human beings and want to live the way that was meant for us. . . if there is no genocide, then why do Indian people have to live with dehumanization every day, in so many ways?  Through ceremonial ways we can help the young people dream back their individual and their nation’s way of life. Through the ceremonial ways, we will bring our young people back into their own reality.  Ceremonial ways bring peace and justice, and are there so that the people may live”.

My point, sister, is that Indian people who know their culture are the experts.  Settlers like me need to do our own work, to stop colonizing, to stop stealing all the land and giving back more of what we have taken, to stop destroying Indian children's self-identity, and to stop stealing Indian people's ways, as well as stealing Indian people's generosity.

I talk too much.  Best, ska
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« Reply #70 on: February 21, 2009, 12:56:58 am »
No need to apologize.  In many of these things I am just talking out loud and trying to find my own way through the swamp. 

I should also mention that I work with a great number of very caring, dedicated, ethical non-Indian people who really go the extra hundred miles. We need and appreciate all those who try to help. What makes me the saddest is that it is often Indian people who destroy the traditions. it is not just those who are non-Indian who work against culture. So many people who live in Indian communites (on adn off reservation) are damaged by multi-generational abuses from the education system, the state and federal government, and even from each other. This creates identity loss and the resulting despiration that leads people into dependance on drugs, alcohol and the inability to NOT pass their pain and disfunction on to the next generation.  It just makes me cry some days.  I just can not deal with children being hurt or neglected and it is so easy to blame, but I try to keep reminding myself of the lessons my uncle gave me, and like he said when we were blaming someone or something.  "Is that an reason to quit or just an excuse to not try to do better?" Usually, for me it was just an excuse. 

But, it is not all sadness.  I also experience many days of unspeakable wonder and beauty.  Just the other day I heard a little (unrelated) 4 year old tell my auntie,  "g' eh Ne' naestse!" - which is baby talk for grandma (in the honorific way) come here!  It made us all clap with joy. So try not to be negative and I continue to pray that we will survive this time too.  Every morning is at least another chance to try.

Take care -

Offline sam

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Re: Pablo Russell
« Reply #71 on: February 22, 2009, 03:37:11 am »
yeah it helps a lot i got clear not to trust everybody who claims to be a medicinman.
its so sad to see how people get abused in this ways.and bring themself into this situations.
i got also a e-mail invitation to go to a sweat in germany lead by p.russell price taxe 60 euro
but who can putt a stop to it to sell ceremonies?

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Re: Pablo Russell
« Reply #72 on: August 19, 2009, 08:39:09 pm »
hi i wanna post a follower of pablo Russell
his name is Ernest Ferrer
his Website can picarola
he charge for Sweats and other New Age Stuff
He is clever enough to set the pricetaxe not on the internet.
He works together with a Man namesa Joe Irmer who claims to be a Mainbishop
from Europe from a blackfoot sundance he charge money too for his Sweats
his Website is duebbekold.de
it seems it getting big to brunch out to sell holy ceremonies.

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Re: Pablo Russell
« Reply #73 on: March 23, 2010, 10:55:10 am »
I must say something here. 

Ska I like what you have to say about language.  Now, this too you must know: Pablo's first language is indeed Blackfoot.  He is Kainai (Blood) and is in many ways, a traditional person in his roots, having had much of his upbringing as his grandmothers 'eldest grandchild'.  She was as second mother to him.  He knows many old stories, and he did not even learn english until he went to school.  He has a very traditional family actually.

As a young man, he was more into rodeo than ceremonies.  (There were many many years where ceremony was a secret affair on reserves, and everyone was encouraged to be catholic cowboys instead.)  Eventually though, Pablo found his was though that and became a Sundancer.  His elder, and second father, Morris Crow, brought the Lakota sundance lodge to the Blood reserve, by gifting elders in S Dakota and earning the rites as per protocal.  Pablo, in turn, did receive those rites.  He has danced more times than any other person I have met.  This all happened many years ago, and it is just recently that some of this is being relaized, and coming in to the bigger picture.

So for the last 10 years or so pablo has been doing his euro tours.  Im not going to say whether this is right, or wrong, because essentially, that is between him and the Creator.  I do know that it isnt entirely something he 'chose'.  It sort of fell to him, and for various reasons he has been back forth across the ocean many times.  If things are as they were a few years back, then I can guarantee you he gets homesick often. 

His conduct does come into question.  Is he doing the right thing? the wrong thing? Perhaps he has made some foolish choices.  I know he has in the past had difficulties with relationships and addictions.  I hope and pray he continues to heal,as we all do.  He has alot of weaknesses, and also a lot of strengths.  But he most definitely not a 'fake'. 

 

 

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Re: Pablo Russell
« Reply #74 on: March 23, 2010, 03:34:54 pm »
I'm always heartened when this thread comes back up.  You share some good points naapiakii (translation from Blackfoot to English: White Woman).  When this thread gets added to, the picture of Pablo Russel becomes just a little more focused and complete.  Like any human being there are many facets to his personality in terms of what he says, does and promotes.  I think some confusion arises sometimes over the numerous possible definitions of fake vs fraud.  This website has a definition, and there are others (google "plastic shaman" for some other possibilities).  In Pablo's case, one could never argue whether or not he is First Nations.  Indeed he is a card-carrying member of the Kainai First Nations.  Blood quantum is not in dispute here.  Whether he practices a fraudulent and therefore dangerous brand of fake spirituality is.

Some problems:

He charges for ceremony.
He takes his teachings off-rez and proselytizes to euros for money.
His sundances and sweats are primarily attended by non-Native people and not supported well by his own people.
His sundances and sweats are primarily funded by non-Native people.
His teachings include what he calls "The Indian Way"--which in essence promotes a dangerous stereotype.  There is no Indian Way, and that sort of pan-Indianism is rife with racial discrimination, masked as some sort of romanticism.  A wolf in sheep’s clothing.


But my dog in this fight is his ongoing sexual exploitation and abuse of women.  Every spiritual leader is completely responsible for maintaining appropriate and honourable relations with those s/he teaches.  When a Teacher assumes a role of power, leadership, and dependence the stage is set for exploitation unless one is aware of being scrupulous in one’s self-examination and vigilent in self-governance.  When the lines and edges of personal boundaries get blurred by one’s own sense of beauty and self-importance, people get used, hurt and abused.  We witness it in the media every day with reports of abusive clergy, teachers, social workers, doctors and psychologists.  We hear how people in positions of perceived (and/or real) power take advantage of those who depend on them to be honourable.



The fact that Pablo continues to have children with young women students who follow him across the ocean from their european homes is problematic to me.  Despite a new baby, he continues to call himself “single” and women are continuing sexual relationships with him as an expression of hero worship.  In these sorts of relationships, consent is not even possible.  The balance of trust and authority negates a true consent and so these scenarios are in fact a type of sexual abuse.

Yes, he is human.  Yes he does some good work.  Yes he has some wonderful family connections and has made some honourable sacrifices.  But the same could be said for every human being alive, for not one of us is without merit.  It is when we elevate our accomplishments and perceived importance to that of a demi-god, and exploit others in our quest for more more more, that we become dangerous to ourselves and others whose lives we touch.

Sex is never never never a part of an honourable student/teacher relationship.  When a person uses the people he has access to….those people who are particularly hungry to feed themselves on his words, his message, his “exoticism”…when the vulnerable come seeking a better way of life, they are wide open to sexual exploitation due to the imbalance of power.  Pablo has learned this, and has learned it well.

I call it spiritual abuse.