Someone says they are cherokee, its not for me to say. I say "okay then , maybe you are , maybe you aren't , only you would know" if they are does it change things? should it? If they aren't does it change things? should it? In both cases , shouldn't I still remain respectful and honor my parents and elders? My upbringing? Maybe they aren't cherokee, but are they good people?
If they are bad people then should I tear up my mind and heart and gut making myself sick by behaving , justifiably, with animosity? or should i just stay away from them? and use my energy more constructively elsewhere?
I agree that all people regradless of their race, religion, culture, should be respected. I respect everyone whether or not they are Indian or Cherokee. I agree that there are good people in all races.
But my point is that Indian Nations are based on "blood" Some have different BQ requriements, or have their membership based on a matrilineal line, etc. But it still comes down to the "blood" That is the conerstone of citizenship in Indian Nations.
It's not like for example, an immigrant comes to the US, intergrates, learns English and applies for citizenshp. Also, in Mexico, you can marry a Mexican citizen, live there, learn some history, and later apply for Mexican Citizenship.
In Indian Nations its not like that. You either have the "blood" or you don't. There are Tribal Members of some Indian Nations that don't know nothing about the ways of their tribe. But they are "of the blood", and members of the tribe.
Then you have maybe whites or blacks, that live on or near a reservation, and learn the ways, and become integrated, and participate in ceramony ect. But they will never be able to become a citizen or member of that tribe because they are not "of the blood"
I agree with this. If you are not "of Indian blood" of a Tribe, your not a member of that tribe.
Thats not to say, that there are not a lot of highly respected whites or blacks recognized in other ways by a tribe. I know there are whites for example, that have done a lot of good things for Indians and Indian Tribes and maybe even some blacks. But I'm never going to recognize them as someone of "my blood" or as someone of my Tribe. Thats how I see things.