Needs More Caffeine...
I agree, there is almost no point in trying to talk to those kinds of women, as they will only be defensive. One of the reasons is because if they don't have people like McCullough to "believe in", then they would have to face the reality that the history really isn't theirs to hold. People like Steve provide these people with a flase sense that "anyone can be Indian". They use Lakota phrases such as Mitakuye Oyasin "we are all related" to further propagate this "belief", when in fact that is NOT what that saying means or ever meant to imply. They encourage these people to say retarded things like, "I was an Indian princess in a past lifetime", and they use the little bit of true knowledge they have and mix it with a vast amount of false knowledge to further their own agenda. This is why I have always said, "A little knowledge can be very dangerous".
I remember when I was younger, one of my mentors took me to Inipi with her. It was not one of these "open sweats" that Steve and his type promote. It was a very tight group of friends and family, and the only reason I was there is because she was an "elder" who had a personal relationship with me and knew me well, and brought me. But before I went, she sat me down and went over the proper ways and etiquette. I listened, and while there, I observed. I can honestly say, it was NOTHING like what these types of people talk about when they describe their "Sweats". I have never gone, and never will, but apparently many people are falling for this crap.
I just don't understand why Steve couldn't just be one of those White people who respects the culture and admires it without having to possess it and claim it as his own. there are plenty of White people who have a genuine interest in helping to keep the Indian culture protected, and they are able to remain true to who they are. These kinds of white people are good hearted. But then there are the Steve types, who claim respect for something out of one side of their mouths, but then exploit the very culture they claim to respect with the other side of their mouth.